Sunday’s Sermon Today: Get Found (Luke 15:1-10)

We think we get Jesus.

Jesus, who performs miracles of healing. Jesus, who feeds many. Jesus, who teaches. Jesus, who dies one dark Friday and rises again on a Sunday.

But our scripture today drops us right into the center of the Pharisee-Jesus confrontation.

The down-and-out, that is, the tax collectors and ‘sinners’ are crowding around Jesus. They know he’s special–we expect him to welcome those people in, even if they’re not welcomed in by others.

But the thing is, the Pharisees are surprisedbothered, and concerned that Jesus would behave like this! We know that hanging out with the outcasts is what what Jesus does, but the religious leaders of the day? It bothers them.

And that begs the question, why?

The Pharisees think that “good, religious people” wouldn’t hang out with people of ill repute. They think there’s an ‘us’ and a ‘them.’ And they think that the ‘them’ are so unnecessary that they literally can be ignored, or worse, discarded like trash.

Jesus hears the Pharisees, and he responds with not just one, but two, parables about things that get lost. And they require us to consider how the ‘finder’ responds upon reacquiring what was lost.

In the first, there are a hundred sheep. Now, I don’t know how much a sheep was actually worth in Jesus’ day, but I know that ninety-nine sheep are economically more valuable than one sheep. It’s simple math, right? Ninety-nine > one. Easy decision, right?

But in this scenario, it’s not about math, it’s about the search. In Jesus’ words, the shepherd will leave the ninety-nine who are already his in “open country,” or unprotected against the advances of wolves, bears, and falling into ravines, and go after the one he has lost.

The ninety-nine are already “in,” already accounted for. They can, for at least the time it takes to do the searching, take care of themselves. They are no longer the most pressing concerns, the most needy, those who will get the majority of the shepherd’s focus.

And, when the one is found, the shepherd will rejoice over that lost-now-found sheep. There will be a party, held by the shepherd, for that sheep, and it will represent the full-on rave that will occur in heaven when a sinner repents of his ways.

Just in case the teachers of the law don’t get it, just in case the ‘sinners’ in attendance don’t know that Jesus is talking to them, too, Jesus tells another parable.

This time, a woman has ten silver coins, loses one, and goes on a full-on spring cleaning until she finds the one coin. And having found that coin, she throws a party that economically has to exceed the benefit of finding that last coin.

 

In both cases, Jesus takes the expected, the economic benefit of having ninety-nine sheep or finding a tenth silver coin, and flips them on their proverbial head. Jesus is saying the lost one is what drives the kingdom of heaven, that the lost one is what God is really seeking.

So, what if we’re getting it wrong?

What if we should want to be lost so that God can find us?

What if being found actually should look like recognizing that we’re perpetually lost? That without Jesus, we really are lost?

What if, when we become so self-assured that we’re found and in with Jesus, that we are lost-er than the people who actually have no idea about Jesus in the first place? (Yes, I am being grammatically incorrect and making up a word.)

What if, someone hearing this (or reading this) has never recognized that no matter what they’ve done to “get” lost, that Jesus is searching for them?

Notice that neither the one hundredth sheep or the tenth coin has a reason for how or why they got lost. Their “lostness cause,” the “why” to the situation, doesn’t matter.

Jesus doesn’t care if you’re lost because you can’t get over your hate, you lust after people you’re not in a Godly relationship with, you tell lies all the time, you gossip, you stole money once, or you just aren’t sure this church thing is for you. He just wants you to know that you’re lost and that GOD LOVES YOU ENOUGH TO GO LOOKING.

Have you ever been asked if you’ve “found Jesus?” My favorite illustration of this is a picture of two people knocking on a person’s door, asking the question, while Jesus ‘hides’ behind a curtain in the person’s home.

The thing is, Jesus doesn’t get lost. We do. We don’t need to ‘find’ Jesus. We need Jesus to find us.

I don’t do it often because I think we get stuck in a cycle of thinking we need to reinvite Jesus into our lives over and over again but… I want to ask you today to consider if you’ve ever asked Jesus to find you. I want to ask you to consider whether or not you’ve been hanging out with Jesus the way you know you should, or if you’ve somehow wandered off from the flock mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and you need to ask Jesus to find you RIGHT NOW.

Don’t wait.

Right now, I want you to stop and pray this prayer, “Jesus, I admit I’ve wandered away. I have been lost, but I know you’re searching. Please find me, claim me, and bring me back to where I’m supposed to be today. Amen.”

Now, to those of you who’ve been found, let’s clear up a couple of things.

First, don’t get too comfortable in being found. It’s not that I want you to doubt your relationship with Jesus; I want you to remember what it’s like to be on the outside looking in, wondering why those church people can know that they’re loved by God. I want you to think about what it’s like to be an ‘outsider’ and I want you to remember that Jesus became an outsider so that outsiders would be comfortable with him.

And second, I want to knight you today. I want you to know that each of you is a finder, whether you prayed a ‘get found’ prayer for the first time a couple of minutes or seventy years ago. It is YOUR JOB to go and share the good news that people are loved by God so that they will know Jesus is pursuing them, and turn around and get found.

It is NOT your job to find them. They know who they are. Jesus knows who they are. The problem with the teachers of the law and the Pharisees was they thought they got to decide who was ‘found’ and who was ‘lost.’

That’s not our call.

It’s our job to go seeking and to share. And when someone realizes that they were lost and they’ve been found? Then it’s our job to throw one heck of a party.

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Inevitable Defeat Of Mister & Pete: Interview with Michael Starburry

After reviewing Lionsgate’s The Inevitable Defeat of Mister & Pete last week, I was surprised to get a Twitter response from one of the first-time stars, Skylan Brooks, the director George Tillman Jr., and the screenwriter Michael Starburry. Starburry graciously agreed to the email interview that follows.

-The Inevitable Defeat of Mister & Pete is a moving coming-of-age story. Where did you get your inspiration for the details?

The details for the film come from everyday observations. Even cursory research on poverty and drugs will net you stories even more horrific than Mister & Pete. But specifically for me, in 2008, we were hearing a lot about the financial crisis and how Wall Street was suffering. Unfortunately, there wasn’t much talk about impoverished communities, communities that continue to suffer no matter what’s going on in the White House or on Wall Street.

Having grown up in the projects, I felt the if I could tell a story like Mister & Pete through the point of view of kids without being mawkish or maudlin, maybe I would be able to do something more than preach to the choir, so to speak. Many of the details come from experience, but also, as a fan of film, I have to say that I was inspired by great films like Steven Soderbergh’s King of the Hill, Boaz Yakim’s Fresh, even a little Of Mice and Men.

-Psychologist Jonathan Haidt has done a study that asks participants to edit out the parts of an unborn child’s life that they want to. They unanimously edit out all of the bad parts. In your story, Mister and Pete obviously grow through adversity. Why is struggle important to our growth?

This is a FANTASTIC question, and deserves an answer more eloquent than I can likely provide, so I’ll start by quoting Theodore Roosevelt: “Nothing in the world is worth having or worth doing unless it means effort, pain, difficulty… I have never in my life envied a human being who led an easy life. I have envied a great many people who led difficult lives and led them well.”

There are so many reasons that struggle can be important to growth. In the film, our heroes Mister and Pete make it through what will likely be the toughest part of their adolescence. After this struggle, and with the right guidance, they will know that there is nothing they can’t achieve if they work for it. Persevering through struggle provides the kind of self-esteem that turns boys into men and into leaders.

Trading Places plays a pivotal role in Mister & Pete. Why that film in particular?

The monologue from Trading Places sets the table for what the audience is about to witness. I think it is funny and poignant, but also subtle. I was able to use it to show Mister’s acting ability and a little bit of foreshadowing.

-What are some of the struggles you’ve experienced that have helped you get to where you are today?

You know, I can’t really say I’ve struggled much. There were some lean times, but for the most part things have been pretty good. I was writing for a long time before anyone ever paid attention, but I don’t think that was me struggling. I think it was just the natural way it was supposed to happen for me. I’m a self-taught writer, so I didn’t have a connection to Hollywood. I did not go to college and I live in Minnesota, which might as well be Siberia as far as Hollywood is concerned. But I really want to be a screenwriter.

-Tell us a about how your screenplay went from words on paper to action onscreen? How did you hook up with George Tillman?

I sent the script to my friend George Tarrant (who I met via my friend Julie, who I met online at a screenwriting site) in February of 2009. He used to work with George Tillman, Jr. Tarrant read Mister & Pete and thankfully he liked it enough to ask Tillman to read it. George liked it and that’s pretty much it. It took a few years to get going but thanks to George and iDeal Partners (the producers) we got it done.

-What goes through your mind when you watch the movie and realize those actors are saying your words, taking your cues?

It’s very strange, but I love it. It’s great to see young actors like Skylan and Ethan breathe life into their characters. To see guys like Julito McCullum and Anthony Mackie elevate their characters. It’s certainly something I want to happen again, and again, and again…

-Were you involved in the onset experience? If so, what was it like working with two, first-time young kids?

George Tillman, Jr. kept me involved throughout the entire process. I’ve learned so much from him. He’s a friend now, so I feel like I can reach out to him whenever.

The kids had a great acting coach, so I would never interfere with that. I did get to see the auditions and had some input, especially when casting Ethan.

-The film received high marks from critics (including this one) but only had a three-week run in theaters. What needs to happen to get more stories like these out in front of mainstream audiences?

Filmmaking is a team sport. Everyone needs to be on the same page, particularly with the marketing and distribution. It takes guts to release a film like Mister & Pete and stick with it. I guess my answer is, we need more distributors with guts.

-If you were to write an epilogue of the stories of Mister and Pete, what might that look like?

Mister grows up to become governor of New York and sets up mentor and leadership programs to help parents and kids struggling with addiction and poverty.

In a twist, Pete becomes an Emmy winning actor for his portrayal as a tough inner-city cop on Law & Order: 2025.

-What’s next for Michael Starrbury?

I’m looking forward to writing a couple of feature films in 2014, and hopefully a TV show or two. Things are starting to happen at an accelerated rate. The Inevitable Defeat of Mister & Pete, God willing, is just the beginning.

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Life Of A King: Protect Your King (Movie Review)

Eugene Brown (Cuba Gooding Jr.) gets out of jail after eighteen years and can’t get a real job. That’s the trouble with being an ex-con: you never really get to lose the ‘con’. But a stint as a high school janitor turns into the supervisor of detention… and soon Brown is forming a chess club in Washington, D.C. The real-life inspiration behind the film drove me to see it, and the easiest compliment is this: it’s Coach Carter with chess.

Brown works hard to get his new charges to care, even while he struggles to relate to his law school-attending daughter and his recently-released son. He’s done a horrible job as a father, but making it up through the chess club doesn’t automatically make him a better dad. Still, as he works to take on the hardships of his best student (Malcolm M. Mays), he recognizes that the chess board has given him a way of equalizing a world that wants so badly to reject him. And he understands that this is his opportunity to pay it forward, so he teaches his young charges to “always think before you move.”

Gooding has been down-and-out for awhile. Seriously, what’s the last notable movie you can remember him (besides The Butler?) But he’s making a comeback and it’s a shame that Jake Goldberger’s Life of a King didn’t get more attention. Along with the Coach Carter comparison, one could say it’s like Terrence Howard’s Pride (about swimming). Somehow, the farther-from-urban the medium, the more striking the difference.

Of course, lacking birth certificates and parental signatures, our young inner city chess players stand out from the whitebread, comfortable lives of many of their opponents. And the racial/social/economic divide grows. But it’s the kind of thing that makes an underdog movie work, and the kind of thing I’m finding more and more attractive, as I differentiate from the blockbuster movies that are over advertised and bombastic (rather than character or plot driven).

In the end, I respect the film because it does protect its king: it makes the main thing the main thing. You must take responsibility for your own actions on the board and in real life. You must figure out who you are, what your life strategy is, and stick to it even when it gets hard or people doubt you. And when life (or an opponent) gives you a second chance, you must be ready to go for it.

Dennis Haysbert plays Searcy, Brown’s chess mentor, and Lisa Gay Hamilton plays Sheila King, the school principal. For more on the Big Chair Chess Club, go here.

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The Lego Movie: Embrace Joy (Movie Review)

Should an animated kids movie really be this fun?

In this film inspired by the little stacking blocks, Phil Lord and Chris Miller (the writer/directors behind the Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs films and, oddly enough, the big screen 21 Jump Street films) deliver an epic, hilarious, exciting, eye-popping flick that takes LEGOs and animation to a spectacularly different level. But does it have enough to actually speak to the world we live in today?

There is no doubt that there is something for everyone in The Lego Movie. Honestly, the trailer didn’t do much for me but my son loves LEGOs, animated movies, and it was a snow day from school. We were going one way or another! But the truth is that I may have liked the film even more than he did, as the jokes, while not inappropriate, seemed more aimed at children of the ’80s which caters more to the parents who are taking their kids to the theater. The animation is stimulating, even dazzling, and the pop cultural referentials are right on. I’m not sure I caught them all, but they were certainly engaging, and the crowd laughed over and over again.

The film follows the construction worker Emmet (Chris Pratt) as he stumbles into the worldwide struggle between the evil Lord Business (Will Ferrell) and the forces of good, the Master Builders, led by the Gandalf-like wizard Vitruvius (Morgan Freeman), Superman (Channing Tatum), Uni-Kitty (Allison Brie), Batman (Will Arnett), the 1980s space guy (Charlie Day), and MetalBeard (Nick Offerman). Obviously, this is a star-studded cast for a bunch of voices lent to LEGO characters, right? But the thing is, that Lord and Miller are significantly changing the comedy game, both animated and real-world, to the point that everyone wants some action.

At this point, if you haven’t seen the film, stop reading and go see it! Spoilers below otherwise.

The thing is, that the film goes from an entertaining lark with a focus on how obeying the rules can stifle creativity to a “wow, what just happened” moment when it switches from animated LEGO world to live-action reality. Seriously? What just happened? Is it for real.. Oh my goodness…

The fact that Ferrell is the dad/Lord Business makes it a double-whammy. Not only are we being asked to consider what society does to the creative and those who can see the best and brightest in the world, but it’s this kid’s father who is doing it to him. Instead of cultivating the best, the most expressive, and the most powerful of his child’s imagination, Ferrell’s father figure demands that the rules be followed and that change not occur. He’s so focused on being it perfect that he can’t enjoy the moment, that he can’t appreciate what new and special could happen, that he can’t recognize that LEGOs aren’t meant to be Krazy Glued.

When Ferrell says “they aren’t toys because I’m using them,” I can see the connection between how our literal, law-abiding lives can get in the way of us actually having a life. When he says that, I can see how I’ve struggled with my six-year-old’s questions about “trying it that way” rather than the way it says it should work (with pictures!) and I’m not just talking with LEGOs. When he says that, I see the way that we (and by we, I mean ‘The Church’) has gotten hung up on the do’s and don’ts of the Ten Commandments and regulations of the church, instead of embracing the life of joy that God intended. It’s like reading the “Parable of the Prodigal Son” and not realizing that Jesus is asking each and every one of us to reconsider who our neighbor is.

The LEGO Movie wants us to consider joy, and to embrace creativity, and hope, and dare I say, forgiveness and love. Which makes it maybe one of the most Gospel-infused movies I’ve seen lately. Even if that’s not the set of rules they meant for me to storm my way through, taking apart brick by brick, and putting back together, this time, with heart.

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What Kind Of Friend Are You? (A Mustard Seed Musing) (Luke 5:17-26)

There’s nothing more intimidating than preaching to a chapel full of pastors. Well, maybe preaching your ordination sermon to them, or having the bishop show up. But on Tuesday, that’s exactly what I’ll have to do at our District meeting. So here’s a bonus sermon for this week. Enjoy!

The story of the paralytic let down through the roof is one of my favorite Jesus miracles. There’s something mind-blowing, maybe several mind-blowing things that happen in the midst of this story. I’m sure that most of you have preached on several of the subtopics or heard sermons on them before.

Here’s a quick recap:

Jesus is preaching, and people have gathered from all over, everywhere, to come and hear what he had to say. “The Man” has shown up to evaluate him; the poor in pocket and spirit have come to be uplifted; the sick have come to be healed and made whole.

Jesus’ actions were so upsetting to the Pharisees and teachers of the Law that they muttered to each other, calling Jesus a heretic for healing a man’s sins because God alone could do that! And what follows is that Jesus confronts them for thinking that he shouldn’t have forgiven the sins of this man, and so he goes ahead and heals the man, too. No big deal.

Because of the healing, many turn to faith and recognize that God is moving in and through Jesus.

Those points are the ones that every sermon I’ve ever heard have focused on. Jesus versus the Pharisees. Healing with forgiveness of sins. The power of the miracle to change lives. But today, I want us to focus on something else.

I want us to consider what friendship looks like.

Let’s read Luke 5:18-20 again, from the Message translation: “Some men arrived carrying a paraplegic on a stretcher. They were looking for a way to get into the house and set him before Jesus. When they couldn’t find a way in because of the crowd, they went up on the roof, removed some tiles, and let him down in the middle of everyone, right in front of Jesus. Impressed by their bold belief, he said, ‘Friend, I forgive your sins.'”

Now, popularly, we end up with four men. Maybe we think four corners or four ropes to lower him down, but we don’t know how many men were there any more than we know how many wise men visited Jesus as a three-year-old!

We do know that these men rolled up on the house where Jesus was preaching with intent. They were focused on bringing their incapacitated friend, who could not walk or use crutches to JesusIt doesn’t say why they brought him, but can’t we surmise? Can’t we see that four men who would carry a man for miles would want what they thought was best for them, couldn’t they see that if this man had a chance, any chance at all, that it was through Jesus?

Imagine their desperation upon arriving and finding no room. If there were as many people as is implied by the numbers and locations that these people came from to see Jesus, then they couldn’t even see Jesus through a door or window. They couldn’t even push their way in!

Imagine with me the conversation.

“There’s no way in.”

“What are we going to do, go home?”

“We can’t give up, we’ve come so far.”

“He needs this. We’ve got to get in there to see Jesus.”

And so, the friends carry their incapacitated friend up on the roof. And by the roof, we’ll assume that they went up onto the roof through someone else’s house, and carried their friend across several rooftops to get to the house where Jesus was. They tear the roof open to provide a way for the man to get to Jesus, and that’s when Jesus sees their faith and forgives their friend’s sins.

That’s my favorite part.

Jesus forgives a helpless man, who is “stuck,” because he has faithful friends.

Do you have faithful friends? Are you a faithful friend?

I wonder sometimes if I am. I wonder if I am the kind of faithful person and pastor who Jesus looks at and forgives someone because of my faith.

In his book, 11, Leonard Sweet lays out twelve “indispensable relationships you can’t live without.” Some of the highlights: Editor, Butt-Kicker, protege, Yoda, and Back Coverer. All of the characteristics serve some role in our lives, Sweet says. But I’d take it a step further and say that our faithful friends are ones who recognize what’s needed at what time.

Do we need to be encouraged or challenged?

Do we need to be comforted or condemned?

Do we need advice or an ear that is open with a mouth that is closed?

Do we need someone who needs our advice and experience so that we can learn as we teach?

Last week, I had the opportunity to speak with Kyle Idleman, megachurch pastor at Southeast Christian Church and author of Not A Fan. We talked about his new book, AHA, about the Prodigal Son, and how each of us has a series of ‘aha’ moments that we may or may not miss. But Idleman shared with me that he meets with a friend once a week and they ask each other, “what am I missing?” They don’t solve each others problems but they help each other ask the right questions.

Over time, I have come to understand who my faithful friends are. The people who pray for me when they say they will. The people who will look me in the eye and really ask, “how is it with your soul?”

In our scripture today, the question was, “how do we get our friend to Jesus?”

I’m sure we could apply the story of these friends to our churches: how we need to not let the structures in place in architecture or tradition to get in the way of people meeting Jesus, how we need to be willing to ‘go big or go home’ when it comes to our boldness in introducing Jesus to people.

But what about our circle of friends? Are we the kinds of friends who are willing to go the extra mile? Do we have the kinds of friends who see us “stuck” and are willing to do the same?

I know how lonely the church can be for people who wander in knowing they’re missing something, feeling like they don’t belong. And sometimes, that’s us. The pastors.

I’ve counseled four of our colleagues across the conference in the last year who were afraid their marriages were going down, another casualty of our profession.

I’ve seen the children of pastors struggling with their faith because of the role their parents’ jobs played in detrimentally impacting their faith walk.

I’ve seen the impact of the ebb and flow of a parish’s respect and adoration on pastors, and families, myself included.

And I wonder, what would our churches and district look like, if we were “faithful friends?” What difference would that make? How might our ministry change? How might our lives be bettered?

Are you ready to rip the roof off? Are you ready to boldly put your friends, family, and colleagues before Jesus so that they might be forgiven? Are you ready to be forgiven yourselves?

I pray today that God would look down at us and find us faithful friends. But I’d like to pray that with you. Will you join me?

Leader: Loving God, help me take seriously the call on my life to serve.

Response: Help me to take seriously my call to lead.

Leader: May I be a better mentor to those seeking wisdom.

Response: May I be a better friend to those seeking relationship.

Leader: Show me the relationships that need to be invested in and help me to put in the work.

Response: Show me the ways that I can be a better friend, and help me blow through the roof.

All: Holy Spirit, bond us together as one, more than collegiality and stronger than passing strangers. May our work together be for your honor and glory. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

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Uncommon Marriage: One Faithful Couple (Book Review)

It seems appropriate, on Valentine’s Day, to post a review on an amazing couple who are “learning about lasting love and overcoming life’s obstacles together.” Sure, as a pastor, I’ve read my fair share of books on “love and marriage,” but this one caught my attention because half of the couple is former Indianapolis Colts coach and current NBC football commentator, Tony Dungy. Teaming with his writing partner, Nathan Whitaker, and his wife, Lauren, Dungy again delivers another noble entry in the Uncommon series.

While some of the stories are ones that longtime fans (and readers of Quiet Strength, Uncommon, or The One Year Uncommon Challenge) will recognize, the beauty of this particular book is that every situation has at least one segment provided by Tony and another provided by Lauren. Lauren’s energy and Tony’s quiet passion aren’t opposites but good balances, and they shine through the words sculpted by Whitaker. And wow, have they accomplished/worked through/survived a lot, or what??

The Dungys, parents to nine children, have adopted and promoted adoption with a passion, especially Lauren’s. They have worked through five NFL franchises, in hiring and firing, success and failure, heartbreak and exuberance. They have struggled through a child’s near-terminal sickness, and lost another child to suicide. And they somehow end up coming across like average, God-fearing people who have done the best they can with what they have, no special dispensation asked for or granted.

That’s always been what I liked about Tony Dungy, even while I rooted like mad against him as a New England Patriots fan: he never presents himself as better than anyone else. Here, as a husband and father, he doesn’t paint himself as perfect but owns his mistakes, and his wife presents her own side of things, even when they’ve disagreed. It’s a beautiful dance, a wonderful give and take, and they’ve wonderfully welcomed us in through Uncommon Marriage.

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Sunday’s Sermon Today: Are You Trustworthy? (Luke 16:1-13)

I saw two signs on the way back from Richmond one day. “We are you going, heaven or hell?” read one. “We must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ,” intoned the other with a white Jesus standing on stage while a bunch of hands reached up for him. I found myself wondering, “where’s the ‘God loves you’ billboard?”

Now, before you jump me: yes, I believe that there is judgment for those who have met Jesus and rejected him. I believe that we will all have to answer for our lives before the one and only Almighty God one day. I get that.

But is that the point of the Bible?

Now, some of you are starting to squirm and think, “what does this have to do with that parable, about the manager?”

Jesus tells his disciples, note, not a giant crowd of anonymous souls, but those who have already chosen to follow, a rather strange tale of a shrewd manager.  The manager is caught dead to rights, we assume by his peers, and he’s reported to his boss.

But this manager thinks fast on his feet. He asks what he should say, because he knows he’s about to lose his job. He recognizes that he isn’t strong enough to do manual labor, and his pride won’t let him beg, but he figure that the people who owe his boss money will operate out of the ‘enemy of my enemy is my friend,’ and let him stay at their houses.

The manager called in the first debtor, and asked how much he owed. “Nine hundred gallons of olive oil.” The manager told him to sit down and slash the debt in half, to four hundred and fifty.

The manager called in the second and asked how much he owed. “A thousand bushels of wheat.” So the manager said to sit down and slash off two hundred bushels, to eight hundred.

The shrewd manager’s boss commended him “because he had acted shrewdly.” Seriously? The kingdom of God is like that? Rewarding a dishonest middle management type? What in the world could Jesus possibly be getting at here?

I have to admit: I’m not sure.

Jesus concludes his parable with this piece of advice for his disciples: “No one can serve two masters. Either you will hate the one and love the other, or you will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve both God and money.”

The truth is that anyone trying to serve two opposing things can’t accomplish that. Sooner or later, you’re going to have to choose.

You have to choose blame or forgiveness. You have to choose to focus on the life without God or the life with God. You have to choose to embrace your own God-filled life or examine the lives of others you see. You have to choose law or grace.

Which brings me back to the billboards I saw in Richmond.

There are certainly many verses in the Bible about God’s judgment, about parables where those who don’t get it, or better yet, claim to get it and absolutely miss out on it. But there are also many more verses about the ways that God’s grace supersedes everything, even the law of judgment.

And yet, too often, we ‘church folk’ seem to be hung up on all the wrong things. We seem to be focused on telling people how they’re not getting into heaven, how they have problems that they have to get fixed before they can be made right. We seem more concerned with asking people “are you going to heaven or hell?” than “have you loved your neighbor this week?” We seem to more caught up in the small stuff, like theology (yes, I just said how we articulate what God looks like is relatively ‘small’), and who does what, and what choices a person makes that we don’t particularly care for… than we are with the big stuff, which I’d sum up like this.

God is love, and if we are like God, then we are love.

So, what would it look like if we were trustworthy?

What would it look like if we put our own biases aside and really presented the gospel of Jesus Christ to each and every person we met?

What if we forgave our spouse for their latest mistake, or better yet, stopped keeping track of their mistakes?

What if we ignored a person’s sexual preference, past drinking history, timeliness, cleanliness, fashion sense, child raising skills, or education, and loved them no matter what?

What if we stopped caring whether the other person in the conversation was ‘right’ or ‘wrong,’ but listened to what we could learn from their life, even if they were Republican or Democrat?

What if we stopped #tagging everything, from styles of worship to denominations to ways of differentiating theology?

What if we discontinued our need to compare ourselves to others in weight, job performance, marriage, possessions, salary, and lifestyle?

What if we stopped worrying about where someone was from, or what car they drove, and respected them simply because God chose to give them life?

What if we actually loved ourselves in spite of all of those things?

The shrewdness of the kingdom of God is that it fines a laser-like light on what the ‘main thing’ is.

God loved us enough to make the world.

God loved us enough that he sent Jesus to show us what love looks like.

God loves us enough to chase after us to establish, maintain, and grow a relationship with us.

God’s grace.

That’s the main thing. All of the other stuff? It won’t matter much in the long run.

SO, may grace grow. In you, in me, in us. Let it wash over, fill up, overflow, erupt. Let it be enough, and be so amazing that the whole world can see signs about judgment and hell and damnation and find hope and peace in the grace they see in you and me.

Grace, grace, God’s grace,
Grace that will pardon and cleanse within;
Grace, grace, God’s grace,
Grace that is greater than all our sin. (Julia H. Johnston, “Grace Greater Than Our Sin”)

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Sunday’s Sermon Today: My Brother’s Keeper (Luke 10:25-37)

I love Jesus’ interactions with people, one-on-one. Sure, maybe he was standing there in the middle of the synagogue or field, and someone challenges him, but it’s Jesus and this person, head to head. Sometimes, the other person wants to make it a versus thing, but Jesus always finds the way to make the conversation a with kind of thing. He’s always pointing the person back to their own reflections, their own issues, their own thoughts, their own experiences.

And so it is with the expert in the law stands up to test Jesus. He’s the ‘religious right,’ the one with all the answers, and he’s out to show that Jesus doesn’t really know what he’s talking about. So, he asks Jesus, “what must I do to inherit eternal life?”

Now, apparently, the religious leaders haven’t figured out the whole “answer a question with a question” method Jesus has mastered. He asks the teacher in return, “how do you read the scriptures to explain inheriting eternal life?”

The religious leader comes back with the textbook shema: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind’; and, ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.'”

“Attaboy…” says Jesus (or at least, that’s a close approximation).

But the religious leader goes for broke: “And who is my neighbor?”

Wow, how often do we push the envelope until the envelope pushes back? Here’s Jesus, minding his own business, and not picking a fight, and suddenly, the man asks a question that Jesus is willing to answer… with another question.

More often than not, I find these parables to simply be more interesting if we make them ‘modern.’ So here’s my spin on the story that Jesus tells- check it out:

“The kingdom of God is like…” After working late one evening in his office, a young college student was travelling from VCU to Dinwiddie, but along the way, his engine failed and he found himself stranded on 85 one night. He flagged down a passing car, and found himself beaten, robbed, and stripped of his cellphone, identification, and other documents, lying along the side of the road.

A Republican church elder was traveling by, and he saw the flashing lights and the huddled mass of the man along the side of the road, but he’d volunteered at the soup kitchen, and his wife was expecting him soon, so he called 911 and reported it in.

A Democrat choir leader soon came around the bend, but knowing all of the warnings about picking up hitchhikers, and figuring it was much too dangerous, he averted his eyes, but said a quick prayer that someone would come by soon.

A pastor was driving home from midweek service and saw the man finally sitting up by his car, but his car was clean AND there was that church policy about the pastor not being one on one with a young person. So, he knew God would forgive him because he was following the rules and kept driving.

Finally, a van with a broken tail light, traveling just at the speed limit to avoid attention, came around the bend and slowly came to a stop. Three men of small stature got out of the van, their well-worn clothes a distinct difference from the college student’s well-manicured appearance. They bent over his semi-conscious body, muttering to each other in a language that he couldn’t understand and rough but careful hands carried him to the back of the van. A first aid kit was opened, and he felt water brought to his lips. In a delirium, he tried to thank them but passed out.

The next morning, when he awoke in the small county hospital, he was told that some men had pooled their money to pay his registration fee, and he had been cared for thanks to their generosity.

And then there’s the question from Jesus: “Which of these three do you think was a neighbor to the man who fell into the hands of robbers?”

There’s nothing the expert in the law can say is this: “the one who treated him with compassion.”

Jesus nods, and tells the expert in the law to go and do the same.

Jesus told the expert of the law, who could’ve related to one or all of the men who walked by, that he was walking by people he was supposed to love as his neighbor every, single day. And that if he wanted to experience eternal life, he was going to have to toss his preconceived idea of brotherhood and neighborhood out, and start over.

Reformed Presbyterian pastor Timothy Keller wrote, “I see many who do not let their social concern affect their personal lives. It does not influence how they spend money on themselves, how they conduct their careers, the way they choose and live in their neighborhoods, or whom they seek as friends.”

In other words, I see many who say they care about people but don’t change how they think about them, how they spend their money on them, or how they make decisions that affect them.

And yet, as far back as Jonathan Edwards, the Plymouth Plantations author of the “Sinners in the Hands of An Angry God” sermon before we weren’t actually British, the church has understood that its involvement with the poor and its need for classical Biblical doctrine were intertwined.

Jesus has been banging a socially proactive drum from the very beginning of his ministry. His first sermon began when he stood up and read from Luke 4:17-18: “the spirit of the Sovereign Lord is on me, because the LORD has anointed me to preach good news to the poor. He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim freedom for the captives and release from darkness for the prisoners.”

Whoa! Jesus is getting his mission on, isn’t he? Preach good news to the poor, free captives, share the light? But we don’t always recognize that the people they need freed from is us.

Jesus proceeds to preach and teach and heal all over Israel and Judea, sharing the news about God’s grace. And then he lives out his message on the cross, sharing God’s grace instead of God’s justice. Seriously, without the death of Jesus on the cross and his resurrection, we DESERVE death. We DESERVE to pay for our sins in the presence of an ALMIGHTY and holy God.

But the same God who required acting justly and loving mercy, and walking humbly too, shows us mercy even when we didn’t deserve it. (The term for mercy is “chesedh,” God’s unconditional grace and compassion.)

Over and over, the Old and New Testaments come back to an understanding that God expects us to “Speak up for those who cannot speak up for themselves, for the rights of all who are destitute.” That’s a quote in Proverbs 31! God clearly has ideas in mind about how we should treat the immigrant, the disabled, the widow, the orphan, and those were brought up over and over again by Jesus.

Roman Emperor Julian despised Christian faith but said “Nothing has contributed to the progress of the superstition of Christians as their charity to strangers… the impious Galileans provide not only for their own poor, but for ours as well.” Are we that kind to people we aren’t expected to like?

I know every time I see something about Westboro Baptist Church, picketing the funeral of another dead Marine, proclaiming that these deaths are the result of God’s judgment on the U.S. for lax moral standards, especially around homosexuality, that my job to share God’s love just got harder.

My pace quickens, my heart pounds, I get chills—and not the good kind. Isn’t this exactly the opposite of every reading we’ve considered today? Every story that we hear about Jesus?

But we’re the church—and we share our title with some real winners. And if we’re not careful, people have a hard time separating the two.

The “Parable of the Good Samaritan” reminds me of the Dr. Seuss story, Horton Hears A Who, incarnated again as an animated film a few years ago. There, Horton (an elephant) hears the cries of a small town that is blown about on a thistle. He does everything in his power to save the town, to protect and keep it, to advocate for it, because he says “A person’s a person no matter how small.” Nevermind that Horton is an elephant! But he changes the minds of his community by asking them to consider their lives from a new perspective. Jesus is constantly challenging our intellectual understanding of our faith, and demanding we go deeper into a fuller, riskier life than we ever imagined.

In Luke 12:33, he tells them, “Sell your possessions and give to the poor. Provide purses for yourselves that will not wear out, a treasure in heaven that will not be exhausted, where no thief comes near and no moth destroys.”

Another writer and theologian, Miroslav Volf, wrote an essay, “Shopkeeper’s Gold”:

Imagine that you have no job, no money, you live cut off from the rest of society in a world ruled by poverty and violence, your skin is the “wrong” color – and you have no hope that any of this will change.

Around you is a society governed by the iron law of achievement. Its gilded goods are flaunted before your eyes on TV screens, and in a thousand ways society tells you every day that you are worthless because you have no achievements. You are a failure, and you know that you will continue to be a failure because there is no way for you to achieve tomorrow what you have not managed to achieve today. Your dignity is shattered and your soul is enveloped in the darkness of despair.

But the gospel tells you that you are not defined by outside forces. It tells you that you count – even more, that you are loved unconditionally and infinitely, irrespective of anything you have achieved or failed to achieve, even that you are loved a tad bit more than those whose efforts have been crowned with success.

Imagine now this gospel not simply proclaimed but embodied in a community that has emerged not as a “result of works” (Eph. 2.10). Justified by sheer grace, it seeks to “justify” by grace those who are made “unjust” by society’s implacable law of achievement.

Imagine furthermore this community determined to infuse the wider culture, along with its political and economic institutions, with the message that it seeks to embody and proclaim. This is justification by grace, proclaimed and practiced.

Could we be that kind of community?

I John 4 says, “Let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love. This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins. Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another.”

Put aside people we don’t like for a minute: Are we loving of each other? Are we loving to the point of swallowing our frustration and bearing patiently? Or are we quick to judge, quick tempered, even hostile? Our inner attitude is often betrayed by our actions, isn’t it?

If we say one thing in church but really treat each other and others differently, then it doesn’t matter what hymns we preach, what clothes we wear, what Scripture we know. Our faith must be a living breathing thing.

The Social Principles of the UMC can sound like they’re something super complex (and I encourage you to read the unedited version in the Book of Discipline) but they’re actually pretty basic. They’re the kinds of things that will get focused on over the next two years as elections ramp up and people become statistics.

The Principles say that:

We’ll affirm all people regardless of race, and push for equal opportunities for all. We’ll uphold the rights of religious minorities (even those who disagree with us), of children, teens, the elderly, women, disabled people- those who are ignored!

We affirm marriage and fidelity between a man and a woman, that divorce is not ideal but sometimes a regrettable option.

We affirm that God alone should choose who lives and who dies, and that nothing can separate us from the love of God, including suicide.

We affirm that everything we own is actually God’s first. And our money, too.

We affirm that all life is sacred as it was created by God, and that the reconciliation of humanity comes through the resurrection of Christ. And therefore oppose the death penalty as we believe that reconciliation is offered to all.

All of those affirmations beg again the question, who are they for? Who is our neighbor? How would we actually apply the affirmations if they mattered to us, and weren’t just argued around the water cooler?

Would we vote for the death penalty if it was our child or spouse or parent convicted of a crime? Would we deny health benefits if it was our own family member? Would we deny the rights of genetic study if it meant that a loved one could breathe or move or simply exist without pain?

What if it was Jesus? What if Jesus was sick or imprisoned or homeless or poor? What would we do for Jesus? What haven’t we done? What should we do?

AGAIN AND AGAIN THE TEXT REMINDS US THAT THIS ISN’T ABOUT US.

We find a home in church but the church isn’t for us—it’s for everyone.

We find salvation in a relationship with Christ but it isn’t for us alone—it’s for everyone.

We come to know God’s love for us—but if we’re not treating others with the same respect we’d show Jesus if he was here, we don’t really understand it.

So let us confess our sins, both those we have committed against each other and others, and those where we have failed to act when we should have.

Let us pray that God would clean our hearts of selfishness, pride, and misplaced anger, and fill us with love, compassion, and mercy for the world.

And let us rejoice that God’s grace washes over all over sin, and that Jesus’ resurrection brings hope to the whole world. For every human, no matter how small.

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Brad Silverman On His Film, Grace Unplugged (Interview)

Brad Silverman enthusiastically projects optimism and hope when discussing his latest project,Grace Unplugged. The film, starring AJ Michalka (Aly and AJ) and James Denton (Desperate Housewives), follows the prodigal journey of Grace (Michalka) as she explores the world of rock’n’roll that her worship music leader father (Denton) discarded years ago. Navigating the twists and turns of their relationship and Grace’s quest to discover where she should use her gifts, the film is a knockout in terms of storytelling, acting, and delivery that will leave you asking, “where is your heart?”

Fresh off of Movieguide’s Faith and Film Awards, Silverman has taken home the Epiphany Prize, for most inspiring film, and finds that already, the phone calls are getting answered a little faster. His sense of reality comes from his own admission that he’s “a pretty average guy,” determined to ask himself and others if they are living to glorify God or themselves. Faced with concerns about whether Denton’s father figure can be depicted as struggling at home leading a family, Silverman says, “We’re all blinded to our own flaws.”

Here, Silverman sees no separation between the secular and the sacred. “As we’re walking with God, in God’s word, transformed by the Holy Spirit, we should use our gifts and abilities to make good [art].” That’s the rub for Grace and her father, one that has played out in millions of Christian homes where a parent and teenager see different ways to make an impact on the world.

It’s his own experience of success and failure that drive the relationships in Silverman’s script. Jewish until his mid-twenties, the writer/director was witnessed to by a faithful friend and converted to Christianity. Exploring youth ministry, he discovered that yes, teenagers could be out of line, but that parents weren’t always handling things in the best ways they could.

“Kids are going through what is probably the most awkward time of their lives,” Silverman says, “and parents are trying to deal with those kids, but they need to be refocused on what God would have them do in that situation.”

Silverman says that “Christ is the inevitable answer to all of our problems,” but he never wanted the movie to be a “medicine pill.” He wants people of all backgrounds to see it, enjoy it, and learn from the relationship between Grace and her dad.

That’s where Grace Unplugged succeeds in my mind: it’s not that Grace or her dad are “right,” but that they need to grow together. In a pivotal scene, Silverman remembers giving direction, standing between the two actors. “I made waves with my hands, holding my arms up, and while at any point in the wave motion, one could be higher or lower, we aimed to be dead even in the middle,” he says. “There are so many movies where the kid has to see the error of his ways or they paint the dad as this obnoxiously overbearing parent, and I didn’t want the audience to see it as black and white.”

Still, Silverman admits that parenting under God is a growing, moving thing, as the father of two teens and two younger boys. “You better believe I love my kids,” Silverman recounts, “but they’ve seen plenty of Grace and sometimes at home, they’ll say, ‘you know, you’re starting to sound like the dad…’”

It’s tough being the director of an award-winning film AND a dad, no doubt. Your toughest audience, bound to keep you on your toes, is always waiting for you at home.

 

This interview was originally published on HollywoodJesus.com.

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Inevitable Defeat Of Mister & Pete: More Than Survival Mode (Movie Review)

Every once and awhile, there’s a film that you’ve never heard of that blows you away. The Inevitable Defeat of Mister & Pete is one of those films. Jennifer Hudson, Jeffrey Wright, Anthony Mackie, Adewale Akinnuoye-Agbaje, and Jordin Sparks headline this Lionsgate drama that tracks one summer in the lives of Mister (Skylan Brooks) and Pete (Ethan Dizon), two young tweens who find themselves orphaned by their parents’ decisions and the system’s negligence in New York City. Sure, you’ve heard of the those first five actors and actresses, but it’s these two first-time movie stars who steal the show.

Drug use, prostitution, child abuse and neglect, and violence are major players in this inner city drama. It’s a life that’s too serious, too complex, and too tragic to be dumped on two thirteen-year-olds, but those are the facts as they’re presented here. The world that Mister inhabits involves failing the eighth grade, a mother who’s too high to actually pay the bills, and a intellect-mixed-with-sass that gets him in more trouble than it helps him out. But all of this makes him a compelling character for the film, and begs that we see with our own eyes what the world would look like from his perspective.

To be clear, there are lots of victims here, but not as many ‘villains’. Mister’s mother (Hudson) longs to be a success, but prostitution is the only way she knows to move forward, to pay the bills and buy herself drugs. Mister cusses out a teacher who is trying to help him, but that’s the way he’s been taught to speak by his surroundings, and rejection has to be met with bravado and verbal violence. The cops aren’t overtly abusive, but doing their job means that they break-up families, and ‘orphan’ kids. An adult friend of Mister’s who escaped the ghetto (in a variation of his mother?), Alice (Sparks), gives him gifts but never really lifts him out of his environment, effectively being ineffective. The closest thing to an out-and-out ‘bad guy’ is Dipstick (Julitto McCullum), who steals the kids’ stuff and wants them to end up busted by the Housing Authority.

To read that laundry list of problems is to see the abject tragedy of the film, but director George Tillman, Jr. (Notorious, Men of Honor, Soul Food) mixes in a fair amount of humor and irony. Mister can quote whole monologues from the Eddie Murphy/Dan Ackroyd comedy Trading Places and his lessons to Pete about being tough, not snitching, etc. have a way of ironically needing to be clarified or flipped, and Pete’s naiveté begs for our acknowledgment that regardless of what they face, these are still kids. Mister’s improvised impersonations are their own mini-show within the show!

Mister’s pursuit of an acting job mirrors his battle between being tough and fake, or actually being the gold-hearted kid he is. “You don’t act like the character, you are the character,” advises one of his favorite books. He’s learning that who he acts like helps define who he is, and that in caring for Pete, he’s slowly morphing from immature, angry kid into sufficient, established adult.

Along the way, both boys have to learn how to trust, and who to love. Ultimately, under Mister’s tutelage, we hear that we have to love everyone (even the moms who leave them homeless) but we don’t have to like how they treat us or how they behave. Establishing themselves for who they are and not who they aren’t is a big step here- and it’s a big step for all of us if we’re going to be realistic. Too often, we are defined in terms of what we’re not, instead of figuring out who we are and pursuing that sentiment with every passion we have.

The Inevitable Defeat of Mister & Pete is tough to watch at times, but the payoff from watching these kids rise above their situations to do more than survive, but to thrive, is impressive.

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